The Great Surname Debate: To Combine or Not to Combine?
Hey there, lovelies! It's Danielle, The Zesty Celebrant, and it’s time to address the matter of your NEW married name with… The Great Surname Debate: Should You Combine Your Last Names After the Wedding?
As you plan your special day, you're probably wondering about the logistics of merging your lives together - and that includes your last names! So, let's dive into the world of surname combining and explore the answers to your burning questions.
Should we combine surnames?
Ultimately, the decision to combine your surnames is a personal choice that depends on your individual preferences, cultural backgrounds, and family traditions. Some couples opt for a hybrid surname, while others prefer to keep their original names. It's essential to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about what works best for both of you.
When should we combine surnames?
You can combine your surnames at any time, but it's commonly done after the wedding. Some couples prefer to wait until after the honeymoon or once they've settled into married life. There's no one-size-fits-all timeline, so do what feels right for you both!
Plus, once you’re married - I send you a guide on how to go about it all!
Do I have to take my partner's last name?
Nope! While some couples choose to adopt a shared surname, it's not a requirement. You can keep your original name, hyphenate, or create a new surname that's a combination of both. The key is to communicate your preferences with your partner and make a decision that works for both of you.
What do I sign on the day?
On your wedding day, you'll sign your current legal name on the marriage certificate. Don't worry about changing your surname on the spot - that can be done later through legal channels.
Still not sure which one to take?
Why not make it a fun and interactive experience? As your celebrant, I can turn it into a game where your guests get to decide on the coolest last name combination! We can put it to a vote, and you can even display the options on a cute sign or board. It's a unique way to involve your loved ones and make the experience even more special.
So, there you have it, lovelies! The decision to combine your surnames is a personal one, and there's no right or wrong answer. What matters most is that you and your partner are on the same page and that your love for each other is the foundation of your union.
So, whether you keep your own, take theirs or mix it up or completely - you’ll be married and a Mr/Mrs/Mx “Insert-Cool-Last-Name-Here” and as long as you can sign that - you’re golden!
Big love from Ms. Zesty Celebrant
