Little Lovebirds: 10 Heart Warming Ways to Include Your Kids in Your Wedding Ceremony

Hey there lovers! It's your spirited celebrant, Danielle Aquilina, aka The Zesty Celebrant with some snazzy ways to include your little ones in your big day!

Weddings are a time to celebrate the love between two people and the blending of two families. But what about the little ones in the family? Including your young kids in your wedding ceremony can be a beautiful way to make them feel special and to signify the start of a new chapter in your family's life. Here are 10 heart-warming ways to involve your children in your wedding ceremony! 

  1. Ring Bearer or Flower Girl: You can include your young children in the traditional roles of ring bearer or flower girl, where they can walk down the aisle with the wedding rings or scatter flower petals.

  2. Junior Bridesmaid or Groomsman: If your child is too old to be a flower girl or ring bearer, you can give them the title of junior bridesmaid or groomsman and have them stand with the bridal party during the ceremony.

  3. Unity Ceremony: A unity ceremony is a symbolic ritual that represents the joining of two families. You can involve your children in the unity ceremony by having them pour sand or light candles to symbolize the union.

  4. Family Vows: Consider writing family vows that include your children and committing to them during the ceremony. This can be a meaningful way to make them feel included and to signify the blending of your families.

  5. Blessing or Prayer: You can ask your child to lead a blessing or prayer during the ceremony, which can be a beautiful way to involve them and incorporate their beliefs and values into the wedding.

  6. Musical Performance: If your child has a talent for singing or playing an instrument, you can have them perform a song during the ceremony or reception.

  7. Wedding Party Entrance: During the entrance of the wedding party, you can have your children walk in with you or have them hold a banner or sign announcing the bride or groom.

  8. Acknowledgment of children: Take a moment during the ceremony to acknowledge your children and thank them for being a part of your life. This can be a touching way to express your love and appreciation for them.

  9. Family Photo: Capture a family photo during the ceremony or reception that includes your children. This can be a special keepsake that you can treasure for years to come.

  10. Kids Table: Set up a special table for your children at the reception, complete with fun activities and games. This will give them a designated space to enjoy themselves and feel included in the festivities.

Your wedding day is about more than just you and your partner. It's a day to celebrate your family and the love that binds you all together. These 10 heart-warming ways to include your young kids in your wedding ceremony are sure to make them feel loved and included in this special day.

Feeling the love? Let’s go!

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